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Getting ashamed. It's good!

It just happened to me today. I felt so strong about it. It frees me from holding any image of anywhere closer to perfection.  As a young lawyers you are the guinea pig of the office. You would be asked to do all No-n-sense things which will be ridiculous to do but it will take you in long way being light and timid. It teaches you about never getting personal with judge.  He/She may say you anything  but it is for your betterself to see. Just like life courts are Your platform to perform and forget. Whenever I have been asked to do something foolish, I knew it but I did it just to satisfy my senior. It teaches you obedience.  My learning from this incident is I am not afraid to say anything to the court now onwards. I am getting brave and stronger everyday.  I am accepting things the way they are and polishing my skills for the best. I have given up the expectation of Mr.  Right and for me now just my work is everything and for that it is just the beginning...
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Be God but don't loose your sanity

Today I visited PGI hospital for CISF leak and was astonished to see, the kind  of people who visits the hospital and the condition in which they are in.  Life is very beautiful here but when you go inside the hospital your world changes and you come to witness the harsh realities of life. Small kids, aged parents, grandparents, mothers, daughters, me and of all ages, you can easily spot who is not affected by one or the other disease. I am afraid to go so far that i may not be able to return but thinking about the end gives me unending strength and endurance to embrace the truth which is death and nimeity.  Life is about chasing rainbows, exploring places, seeing the unseen, experiencing the inexperienced and all those kinds of thoughts that give you the kick of life. When you push that hard and results pour in and that's where you think you have made the mark and it is all in the beginning that keeps you floating and demanding the price of the commodity that...

Sarahah App. What is it all about?

About Sarahah- Sarahah helps you in discovering your strengths and areas for improvement by receiving honest feedback from your employees and your friends in a private manner. Google Play store reports, " Sarahah helps people self-develop by receiving constructive anonymous feedback." Sarahah means honesty in Arabic which this app fosters to give but anonymously. Developed by ZainAlabdin Tawfiq, the app has become viral and is topping charts on one of the most downloaded apps in recent weeks both at Apple App store and Google Play store. But there is a shortcoming condemning of hateful texts and cyber bullying which this app is facing now. Top 5 things you should know about Sarahah 1 Leaving Feedback - You can leave constructive feedback for others. Share your Sarahah account link with your friends to get anonymous message. While in App, you can read comments from a particular person, option is given default. But one has to have Sarahah account.You can look fo...

Stable Mind

One thought One goal One life- Swami Vivekananda summed up life really well. He was one heck of a gentleman whose teachings still stands test of time. When you can control your mind you can control your life. Don't go too harsh on yourself but stick to regimen. See, whether you are getting closer to the benchmark. Be sure what is the single most thing important to you. I say today independence,  freedom to do whatever I want and to be my own enterprise. I realized today the principle of attachment. If I can go slow on my dream and breath. But taking pressure is part of the journey and you should know how to be part of that pool. I can see my vision but I have to give up on my vices. I will make it but I have to be sure what I want in life. I have to compete , I have to be a ruthless winner in all aspect. I have to be willing to go for a kill. I should not be short of words but to dream big I should have impeccable writing skills. The kind of writing should be there. But know how...

Today I was invincible

After a long hiatus, today I got the chance to appear before the High Court judge. My  arms were sweating and heart pumping, because I were to ask passover about a case, I know shit about. Welcome to juniorship. This is what you have to go through when clerks ask you favours in court. The judge simply asked why? I replied, "he    is rushing to the court, he can be any moment here". Judge was eagre to know from my years of practice. I told one year. He smiled and gave me the pass over reluctantly. But minutes later, I realized judges are too strong people mentally.  Thousands appear before them everyday and yet they don't get influenced. This is a quality most successful people possess.  They become invincible.  I also took a pledge I want be people centric any longer and will focus on more professionalism. Seeing the struggle, I realise your work can take you places but you need to give up on all other things. You need to stick to a regimen or rou...